不是那种励志歌 (Not Encouraging Until...)

Bu Shi Na Zhong Li Zhi Ge

一早知 只讲感觉有几肤浅
yī zǎo zhī zhǐ jiǎng gǎn jué yǒu jǐ fū qiǎn
If I had known from the start, discussing feelings would be so shallow.
装不知 偏偏一再持续纠缠
zhuāng bù zhī piān piān yī zài chí xù jiū chán
Pretending not to know, yet continuously entangled.
我惯了 每次也扮幼稚陪你演
wǒ guàn le měi cì yě bàn yòu zhì péi nǐ yǎn
I've gotten used to playing childish roles with you every time.
想终止 可否终结全部错事?
xiǎng zhōng zhǐ kě fǒu zhōng jié quán bù cuò shì?
I want to end this, can we finish all the wrongs?
很可耻 何时开始至今勒索我多次?
hěn kě chǐ hé shí kāi shǐ zhì jīn lè suǒ wǒ duō cì?
It's quite shameful when did this extortion of me start?
循环困境 没白武士
xún huán kùn jìng méi bái wǔ shì
Stuck in a repetitive dilemma, there’s no white knight.
我被你逼使 信服你无争议
wǒ bèi nǐ bī shǐ xìn fú nǐ wú zhēng yì
You force me, I comply without dispute.
每事也顾及你人前面子
měi shì yě gù jí nǐ rén qián miàn zi
In everything, I consider your reputation in front of others.
当我已受够 无法忍 就会走
dāng wǒ yǐ shòu gòu wú fǎ rěn jiù huì zǒu
When I've had enough and can’t endure anymore, I will leave.
缘份也到此
yuán fèn yě dào cǐ
This is where our fate ends.
来回复理智 从头来多一次
lái huí fù lǐ zhì cóng tóu lái duō yī cì
Let's regain our sanity and start over once more.
仍然难频率一致
réng rán nán pín lǜ yí zhì
It's still hard to find a common frequency.
来回十数次才明了不可以
lái huí shí shù cì cái míng liǎo bù kě yǐ
It took several back and forths to understand it can't happen.
遗忘能随心的我 所以现时
yí wàng néng suí xīn de wǒ suǒ yǐ xiàn shí
It's easy for me to forget, so currently,
来无视悔意 濒危时狠一次
lái wú shì huǐ yì bīn wēi shí hěn yī cì
Let’s ignore regret, being ruthless when in danger.
如何能麻木了事 寻回意志
rú hé néng má mù liǎo shì xún huí yì zhì
How can you get numb and let things go without will?
移除我满身刺 要自我救治
yí chú wǒ mǎn shēn cì yào zì wǒ jiù zhì
I need to remove all the thorns and save myself.
多得你让我剧痛无数次 逃离也算励志
duō dé nǐ ràng wǒ jù tòng wú shù cì táo lí yě suàn lì zhì
Thanks to you, I’ve felt pain countless times; escaping can also be motivating.
我亦觉羞耻 配合你才反智
wǒ yì jué xiū chǐ pèi hé nǐ cái fǎn zhì
I also feel ashamed; conforming to you feels irrational.
再没法 放任你蚕食心智
zài méi fǎ fàng rèn nǐ cán shí xīn zhì
No longer can I allow you to consume my mind.
当天给束缚过 威胁过
dàng tiān gěi shù fù guò wēi xié guò
Back then, I was bound and threatened.
现在就让我好好正视 ooh
xiàn zài jiù ràng wǒ hǎo hǎo zhèng shì ooh
Now let me face this properly, ooh.
来回复理智 从头来多一次
lái huí fù lǐ zhì cóng tóu lái duō yī cì
Let's regain our sanity and start over once more.
仍然难频率一致
réng rán nán pín lǜ yí zhì
It's still hard to find a common frequency.
来回十数次才明了不可以
lái huí shí shù cì cái míng liǎo bù kě yǐ
It took several back and forths to understand it can't happen.
遗忘能随心的我 所以现时
yí wàng néng suí xīn de wǒ suǒ yǐ xiàn shí
It's easy for me to forget, so currently,
来无视悔意濒危时狠一次
lái wú shì huǐ yì bīn wēi shí hěn yī cì
Let's ignore regret; be ruthless when in danger.
如何能麻木了事 寻回意志
rú hé néng má mù liǎo shì xún huí yì zhì
How can you get numb and let things go without will?
移除我满身刺 要自我救治
yí chú wǒ mǎn shēn cì yào zì wǒ jiù zhì
I need to remove all the thorns and save myself.
多得你让我剧痛无数次 逃离也算励志
duō dé nǐ ràng wǒ jù tòng wú shù cì táo lí yě suàn lì zhì
Thanks to you, I’ve felt pain countless times; escaping can also be motivating.
Ha, whoo-ooh
状况被我完全看透 全当历练
zhuàng kuàng bèi wǒ wán quán kàn tòu quán dāng lì liàn
I'm completely aware of the situation; consider it experience.
来回复理智 从头来多一次
lái huí fù lǐ zhì cóng tóu lái duō yī cì
Let's regain our sanity and start over once more.
仍然难频率一致
réng rán nán pín lǜ yí zhì
It's still hard to find a common frequency.
无谓又再试 无从回心转意
wú wèi yòu zài shì wú cóng huí xīn zhuǎn yì
It's pointless to try again with no way to change your heart.
祈求能成长一次 操控停止
qí qiú néng chéng zhǎng yī cì cāo kòng tíng zhǐ
I hope I can grow once, as the manipulation stops.
全面地搁置 来行刑 狠一次
quán miàn dì gē zhì lái xíng xíng hěn yī cì
Completely set aside, let’s execute it ruthlessly.
如难为纯属怕事 寻回意志
rú nán wéi chún shǔ pà shì xún huí yì zhì
If it's just about being afraid, find your will again.
移除我满身刺 也未算很迟 whoo
yí chú wǒ mǎn shēn cì yě wèi suàn hěn chí whoo
Removing all the thorns isn’t too late, whoo.
多得你又对着我来放肆 剧痛不止 让我进化多一次
duō dé nǐ yòu duì zhe wǒ lái fàng sì jù tòng bù zhǐ ràng wǒ jìn huà duō yī cì
With you recklessly facing me, the pain keeps coming, allowing me to evolve once more.
这结尾应该够励志
zhè jié wěi yīng gāi gòu lì zhì
This ending should be quite inspirational.

Mandarin learning guide

Learn with 不是那種勵志歌

This guide follows a lyric voice that moves from entanglement and pressure toward self-protection and resolve. The English title is echoed at the end, where the song reflects on whether the ending can count as “励志” at all.

conflicted relationship language; turning points with 来/就/从头; self-protection and resolve vocabulary

What to listen for

The lyrics describe a repeated, painful push-and-pull: pretending not to know, playing along, reaching a limit, and then trying to regain理智 and protect the self. Instead of simple encouragement, the song keeps questioning whether escaping pain, removing “thorns,” and changing one’s state of mind can be called 励志. The language is full of contrast words, repeated action, and firm decisions, which makes it useful for learning how Mandarin expresses ongoing conflict and turning points.

  • Recognize how the lyrics build a sense of repeated entanglement and eventual refusal.
  • Understand how Mandarin uses 来、从头、再、就 to mark actions and turning points.
  • Learn practical vocabulary for pressure, self-protection, and decisive breakaway.

How the song moves

Opening: denial and entanglement

The lyric starts by admitting the situation was known early, then shows pretending not to know and staying entangled line after line.

Middle: reaching the limit

The voice shifts to shame, extortion, and the point where endurance ends and leaving becomes possible.

Turn and aftermath

The later lines focus on regaining理智, removing “thorns,” resisting manipulation, and re-framing escape as something that may count as 励志.

Translation choices

一早知 只讲感觉有几肤浅

yī zǎo zhī zhǐ jiǎng gǎn jué yǒu jǐ fū qiǎn

Natural English
If I’d known from the beginning, talking about feelings would be so shallow.
Why
‘一早知’ is naturally rendered as ‘if I’d known from the beginning,’ and ‘只讲感觉’ works better as ‘talking about feelings’ than a literal word-for-word version. ‘有几肤浅’ expresses a judgment of depth, so ‘so shallow’ fits the lyric’s tone.

当我已受够 无法忍 就会走

dāng wǒ yǐ shòu gòu wú fǎ rěn jiù huì zǒu

Natural English
When I’ve had enough and can’t bear it anymore, I’ll leave.
Why
This keeps the conditional timing of 当…就… and the shift from endurance to action. ‘受够’ and ‘无法忍’ are both about reaching a limit, so the translation stays direct and decisive.

移除我满身刺 也未算很迟 whoo

yí chú wǒ mǎn shēn cì yě wèi suàn hěn chí whoo

Natural English
Removing all my thorns still isn’t too late, whoo.
Why
The line is compact and metaphorical; ‘满身刺’ is best kept as ‘thorns’ because the image matters more than a literal body-part explanation. ‘也未算很迟’ means it is still not too late, matching the hopeful turn in the lyric.

Useful Mandarin from the song

装不知zhuāng bù zhīpretend not to know

This phrase describes deliberate pretending, not actual ignorance. It is useful whenever someone acts unaware to avoid a situation.

他明明知道,却装不知。tā míng míng zhī dào, què zhuāng bù zhī。He clearly knew, but pretended not to.
受够shòu gòuhave had enough

Used when patience or endurance is exhausted. It often introduces a firm decision to stop or leave.

我真的受够了。wǒ zhēn de shòu gòu le。I’ve really had enough.
从头cóng tóufrom the beginning; from scratch

Here it appears in 从头来多一次, a renewed attempt after failure. It is a very useful phrase for restarting something.

我们从头开始吧。wǒ men cóng tóu kāi shǐ ba。Let’s start over from the beginning.
蚕食cán shíto erode; to consume little by little

In this lyric it describes something gradually wearing down the mind. The verb is useful for gradual loss or encroachment beyond this song.

坏习惯会慢慢蚕食时间。huài xí guàn huì màn màn cán shí shí jiān。Bad habits can slowly eat away at time.

Listen closely

  • Listen for the repeated return of 来回复理智 and 来回十数次才明了不可以: the repetition itself mirrors the struggle in the lyrics.
  • Notice how 就会走 gives the decision a trigger: once the limit is reached, leaving follows immediately.
  • Pay attention to the shift from pressure words like 勒索、威胁、操控 to self-focused actions like 正视、移除、自我救治.

Check your understanding

  1. Which line shows the decision point after enduring too much?

    Show answer

    当我已受够 无法忍 就会走

  2. In the lyric, what does 从头 in 从头来多一次 mean?

    Show answer

    It means “from the beginning” or “start over.”

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