好好说再见 (Incomplete Story)

feat. 关诗敏 · Hao Hao Shuo Zai Jian

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我爱过你笑的脸庞
wǒ ài guò nǐ xiào de liǎn páng
I loved your smiling face.
我爱过你心的善良
wǒ ài guò nǐ xīn de shàn liáng
I loved the kindness in your heart.
这些年有你的时光
zhè xiē nián yǒu nǐ de shí guāng
These years with you have been wonderful.
把我的孤独都照亮
bǎ wǒ de gū dú dōu zhào liàng
You brightened up my loneliness.
我记得你说过的话 (时间留不住一句话)
wǒ jì de nǐ shuō guò de huà (shí jiān liú bú zhù yī jù huà)
I remember what you said (time cannot keep a single word).
我记得曾为你疯狂(何时过了年少轻狂)
wǒ jì de céng wèi nǐ fēng kuáng (hé shí guò le nián shào qīng kuáng)
I remember how crazy I was for you (when did the youthful recklessness pass?).
当情太深而缘太浅 (当你离开我的世界)
dāng qíng tài shēn ér yuán tài qiǎn (dāng nǐ lí kāi wǒ de shì jiè)
When love is deep but fate is shallow (when you leave my world).
至少要好好说再见 (要怎么好好说再见)
zhì shǎo yào hǎo hǎo shuō zài jiàn (yào zěn me hǎo hǎo shuō zài jiàn)
At least we should properly say goodbye (how should we say goodbye properly?).
一直以为真爱能直到永远
yì zhí yǐ wéi zhēn ài néng zhí dào yǒng yuǎn
I always thought true love could last forever.
彼此相爱的每一天都是永远
bǐ cǐ xiāng ài de měi yī tiān dōu shì yǒng yuǎn
Every day we loved each other was eternal.
一直以为我们有同一个明天
yì zhí yǐ wéi wǒ men yǒu tóng yī gè míng tiān
I always thought we had the same tomorrow.
你曾是我的世界不完整的世界
nǐ céng shì wǒ de shì jiè bù wán zhěng de shì jiè
You were once my world's missing piece.
如果花谢了会再开
rú guǒ huā xiè le huì zài kāi
If flowers wither, they will bloom again.
如果错了的还能改
rú guǒ cuò le de hái néng gǎi
If something was wrong, it can still be corrected.
这些年累积的关怀
zhè xiē nián lěi jī de guān huái
The care accumulated over these years.
怎能说不在就不在
zěn néng shuō bù zài jiù bù zài
How can you say it's no longer here?
感情不该一直受伤 (为何爱总是带著伤)
gǎn qíng bù gāi yì zhí shòu shāng (wèi hé ài zǒng shì dài zhù shāng)
Relationships shouldn't always be hurtful (why does love always come with pain?).
我不愿让你再失望 (有期望才会有失望)
wǒ bù yuàn ràng nǐ zài shī wàng (yǒu qī wàng cái huì yǒu shī wàng)
I don't want to let you down again (there's hope only when there are expectations).
当幸福碎成一片片 (一颗心碎成一片片)
dāng xìng fú suì chéng yī piàn piàn (yī kē xīn suì chéng yī piàn piàn)
When happiness shatters into pieces (my heart shattered into pieces).
至少要好好说再见 (要怎么好好说再见)
zhì shǎo yào hǎo hǎo shuō zài jiàn (yào zěn me hǎo hǎo shuō zài jiàn)
At least we should properly say goodbye (how should we say goodbye properly?).
一直以为真爱能直到永远
yì zhí yǐ wéi zhēn ài néng zhí dào yǒng yuǎn
I always thought true love could last forever.
彼此相爱的每一天都是永远
bǐ cǐ xiāng ài de měi yī tiān dōu shì yǒng yuǎn
Every day we loved each other was eternal.
一直以为我们有同一个明天
yì zhí yǐ wéi wǒ men yǒu tóng yī gè míng tiān
I always thought we had the same tomorrow.
你曾是我的世界不完整的世界
nǐ céng shì wǒ de shì jiè bù wán zhěng de shì jiè
You were once my world's missing piece.
相信你会过得更好 (我还不想把你忘掉)
xiāng xìn nǐ huì guò dé gèng hǎo (wǒ hái bù xiǎng bǎ nǐ wàng diào)
I believe you will live better (I still don't want to forget you).
别丢弃你无邪的笑 (再见面还可以拥抱)
bié diū qì nǐ wú xié de xiào (zài jiàn miàn hái kě yǐ yōng bào)
Don't discard your innocent smile (we can still embrace when we meet again).
我记得你说过的话 (时间留不住一句话)
wǒ jì de nǐ shuō guò de huà (shí jiān liú bú zhù yī jù huà)
I remember what you said (time cannot keep a single word).
我记得曾为你疯狂 (何时过了年少轻狂)
wǒ jì de céng wèi nǐ fēng kuáng (hé shí guò le nián shào qīng kuáng)
I remember how crazy I was for you (when did the youthful recklessness pass?).
当爱情不再像从前 (你永远是我的从前)
dāng ài qíng bù zài xiàng cóng qián (nǐ yǒng yuǎn shì wǒ de cóng qián)
When love is no longer like before (you will always be my past).
原谅我沉默的再见
yuán liàng wǒ chén mò de zài jiàn
Forgive my silent goodbye.

Mandarin learning guide

Learn with 好好說再見

This guide follows the song’s repeated wish to part well, even while remembering love, time, and loss. The language is reflective and direct, with several lines that compare what was expected to what is now true.

expressing memory and regret; using contrast in reflective lyrics; understanding farewell phrases

What to listen for

The lyric moves from remembered affection to the difficulty of goodbye. It keeps returning to the idea that love, time, and shared hopes did not turn out as expected, yet the speaker still asks for a proper farewell and offers a calm, considerate ending.

  • Recognize key phrases for remembering and looking back on a relationship.
  • Understand how the lyrics use contrast words like 但, 可, and 至少-style framing through the given lines.
  • Use farewell language and soft emotional phrasing in your own Mandarin sentences.

How the song moves

Opening memory

The lyrics begin by listing remembered qualities and shared time, then connect them to loneliness being lit up.

Turning point

The song shifts into repeated memory lines and the realization that love is deep but fate is shallow, leading to the need to say goodbye properly.

Reflection and closure

Later lines contrast what was believed about forever with what is now broken, then end with a quieter request for a silent goodbye.

Translation choices

把我的孤独都照亮

bǎ wǒ de gū dú dōu zhào liàng

Natural English
You brightened my loneliness.
Why
This keeps the line concise and natural while preserving the metaphor of light entering loneliness.

至少要好好说再见 (要怎么好好说再见)

zhì shǎo yào hǎo hǎo shuō zài jiàn (yào zěn me hǎo hǎo shuō zài jiàn)

Natural English
At least we should say goodbye properly.
Why
“好好說再見” is better rendered as a careful, natural farewell than a word-for-word “say goodbye well.”

原谅我沉默的再见

yuán liàng wǒ chén mò de zài jiàn

Natural English
Forgive my silent goodbye.
Why
This captures the apology in 原谅我 and the restrained tone of 沉默的再见 without adding extra drama.

Useful Mandarin from the song

记得jì deremember

记得 introduces recalled information and is useful whenever you say you remember a person, event, or detail.

我记得你的名字。wǒ jì de nǐ de míng zì。I remember your name.
至少zhì shǎoat least

至少 sets a minimum standard or modest request; here it softens the farewell into something that should be done properly.

至少告诉我一声。zhì shǎo gào sù wǒ yī shēng。At least tell me once.
还能hái néngcan still

还能 shows remaining possibility after a change or problem, as in something wrong that can still be corrected.

现在还能改吗?xiàn zài hái néng gǎi ma?Can it still be changed now?
原谅yuán liàngforgive

原谅 is a practical verb for asking forgiveness, and here it frames the goodbye as something the speaker knows may hurt.

请原谅我来晚了。qǐng yuán liàng wǒ lái wǎn le。Please forgive me for being late.

Listen closely

  • Listen for how the repeated lines make the farewell feel more insistent each time they return.
  • Notice the paired phrases in parentheses; they often echo or expand the main line right after it.
  • Track the shift from memory-based lines to the final apology in 原谅我沉默的再见.

Check your understanding

  1. Which line asks for the farewell to be done properly?

    Show answer

    至少要好好说再见。

  2. What does 还能 suggest in 如果错了的还能改?

    Show answer

    It suggests something can still be corrected.

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