恋恋真言 (Truth About Love)

Lian Lian Zhen Yan

想 忘了他 所以决定爱上你
xiǎng wàng le tā suǒ yǐ jué dìng ài shàng nǐ
I want to forget him, so I decide to love you.
长久以来 我不知 我自己有多傻
cháng jiǔ yǐ lái wǒ bù zhī wǒ zì jǐ yǒu duō shǎ
For a long time, I didn’t know how foolish I was.
想 跟著你 可是一直梦见他
xiǎng gēn zhe nǐ kě shì yì zhí mèng jiàn tā
I want to be with you, but I keep dreaming of him.
直到现在我发现 你其实都了解
zhí dào xiàn zài wǒ fā xiàn nǐ qí shí dōu liǎo jiě
Until now, I've realized you actually understand everything.
你的手温柔的碰触我
nǐ de shǒu wēn róu de pèng chù wǒ
Your hand gently touches me.
抚去我脸上的泪水
fǔ qù wǒ liǎn shàng de lèi shuǐ
Wiping away the tears on my face.
可是你并不明白
kě shì nǐ bìng bù míng bái
But you don’t understand.
我的哭泣是到底为了谁
wǒ de kū qì shì dào dǐ wèi le shuí
My tears are really for whom?
而泪水不停的滑落
ér lèi shuǐ bù tíng de huá luò
And the tears keep falling.
我已经无法解释 无法言语
wǒ yǐ jīng wú fǎ jiě shì wú fǎ yán yǔ
I can no longer explain, no words to say.
我的感动 是完全因为你
wǒ de gǎn dòng shì wán quán yīn wèi nǐ
What moves me is entirely because of you.
爱 上了你 所以决定忘记他
ài shàng le nǐ suǒ yǐ jué dìng wàng jì tā
I've fallen in love with you, so I decide to forget him.
长久以来 我不知 我自己有多傻
cháng jiǔ yǐ lái wǒ bù zhī wǒ zì jǐ yǒu duō shǎ
For a long time, I didn’t know how foolish I was.
我 跟著你 不再把你当作他的影子
wǒ gēn zhe nǐ bù zài bǎ nǐ dàng zuò tā de yǐng zi
I follow you, no longer seeing you as his shadow.
从今而后 不必再作假
cóng jīn ér hòu bù bì zài zuò jiǎ
From now on, no need to pretend.
你的手温柔的碰触我
nǐ de shǒu wēn róu de pèng chù wǒ
Your hand gently touches me.
抚去我脸上的泪水
fǔ qù wǒ liǎn shàng de lèi shuǐ
Wiping away the tears on my face.
可是你并不明白
kě shì nǐ bìng bù míng bái
But you don’t understand.
我的哭泣是到底为了谁
wǒ de kū qì shì dào dǐ wèi le shuí
My tears are really for whom?
而泪水不停的滑落
ér lèi shuǐ bù tíng de huá luò
And the tears keep falling.
我已经无法解释 无法言语
wǒ yǐ jīng wú fǎ jiě shì wú fǎ yán yǔ
I can no longer explain, no words to say.
我的感动 是完全因为你
wǒ de gǎn dòng shì wán quán yīn wèi nǐ
What moves me is entirely because of you.
你的手温柔的碰触我
nǐ de shǒu wēn róu de pèng chù wǒ
Your hand gently touches me.
抚去我脸上的泪水
fǔ qù wǒ liǎn shàng de lèi shuǐ
Wiping away the tears on my face.
可是你并不明白
kě shì nǐ bìng bù míng bái
But you don’t understand.
我的哭泣是到底为了谁
wǒ de kū qì shì dào dǐ wèi le shuí
My tears are really for whom?
而泪水不停的滑落
ér lèi shuǐ bù tíng de huá luò
And the tears keep falling.
我已经无法解释 无法言语
wǒ yǐ jīng wú fǎ jiě shì wú fǎ yán yǔ
I can no longer explain, no words to say.
我的感动 是完全因为你
wǒ de gǎn dòng shì wán quán yīn wèi nǐ
What moves me is entirely because of you.

Mandarin learning guide

Learn with 戀戀真言

This guide uses the song’s repeated turns between “you” and “him” to practice contrast, cause-and-effect, and emotionally loaded everyday verbs. The lyrics stay close to plain, direct Mandarin, which makes them useful for reading and listening practice.

contrast with 可是 and 不再; cause and result with 所以 and 因为; emotion vocabulary built around tears, understanding, and apology-like restraint

What to listen for

The lyrics move between trying to forget “him,” turning toward “you,” and repeatedly returning to the problem that the other person does not understand the speaker’s tears. That pattern creates a clear contrast between intention and lingering feeling, while several repeated lines make the wording easy to track across the song.

  • Recognize how the lyrics use 可是, 所以, and 因为 to show shifting reasons and contradictions.
  • Understand and reuse key expressions for tears, understanding, and change such as 泪水, 明白, and 从今而后.
  • Read repeated lines closely enough to notice how the speaker’s focus changes from him to you and back again.

How the song moves

Opening decision

The first lines state a choice to love you in order to forget him, then immediately question that choice by admitting foolishness and dreaming of him.

Middle reflection

The lyrics shift to the other person’s gentle touch, the tears on the face, and the complaint that this person does not understand what the crying is really for.

Return and repetition

Later lines restate the move from loving you to forgetting him, add the idea of no longer pretending, and repeat the same tear-and-understanding sequence.

Translation choices

想 忘了他 所以决定爱上你

xiǎng wàng le tā suǒ yǐ jué dìng ài shàng nǐ

Natural English
I want to forget him, so I decide to love you.
Why
This keeps the clear purpose result in 所以 and preserves the speaker’s intentional decision with decide to love you.

直到现在我发现 你其实都了解

zhí dào xiàn zài wǒ fā xiàn nǐ qí shí dōu liǎo jiě

Natural English
Until now, I've realized you actually understand everything.
Why
Actually understand everything fits 其实都了解 while keeping the discovery tone of 直到现在我发现.

从今而后 不必再作假

cóng jīn ér hòu bù bì zài zuò jiǎ

Natural English
From now on, there’s no need to pretend anymore.
Why
This rendering keeps 从今而后 as a forward-looking time marker and 作假 as pretending rather than a more specific action.

Useful Mandarin from the song

所以suǒ yǐso; therefore

Used to connect a reason and a decision. Here it links the wish to forget him with the choice to love you.

我很累,所以先回家。wǒ hěn lèi, suǒ yǐ xiān huí jiā。I’m tired, so I’ll go home first.
可是kě shìbut

A simple contrast marker that opposes wanting to be with you and still dreaming of him.

我想去,可是我没时间。wǒ xiǎng qù, kě shì wǒ méi shí jiān。I want to go, but I don’t have time.
从今而后cóng jīn ér hòufrom now on

A formal-sounding time expression used to mark a change starting at the present moment and continuing forward.

从今而后,我会更认真。cóng jīn ér hòu, wǒ huì gèng rèn zhēn。From now on, I’ll be more serious.
并不bìng bùnot at all; does not

This strengthens the negation before 明白, making the refusal or lack of understanding more emphatic than 不 alone.

他并不累。tā bìng bù lèi。He isn’t tired at all.

Listen closely

  • Listen for the repeated pattern where the lyrics return to the same tear-and-understanding lines; repetition helps mark the song’s emotional turning points.
  • Notice the contrast between 想/决定 and 可是/并不: the speaker’s intention changes, but the feeling does not fully follow.
  • Pay attention to how the verbs are kept very plain: 忘记, 跟着, 碰触, 抚去, 滑落, and 解释 each carry a clear action in the line.

Check your understanding

  1. In L0001, which word shows the result or decision made after the first clause?

    Show answer

    所以.

  2. What is the contrast in L0003 between the speaker’s wish and the next clause?

    Show answer

    The speaker wants to be with you, but keeps dreaming of him.

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