True Love

选择明天可能的爱
xuǎn zé míng tiān kě néng de ài
Choosing the love that might come tomorrow
那一夜他沉默 从低潮关系逃开
nà yī yè tā chén mò cóng dī cháo guān xì táo kāi
That night he was silent, escaping from the low point of the relationship
一直到今天他还始终不明白
yì zhí dào jīn tiān tā hái shǐ zhōng bù míng bái
Even until today, he still doesn't understand
这样的决定到底该还不该
zhè yàng de jué dìng dào dǐ gāi hái bù gāi
Should I even make such a decision?
还记得那夜的悲哀
hái jì de nà yè de bēi āi
I still remember the sorrow of that night
忍住泪关上门 你故做坚强离开
rěn zhù lèi guān shàng mén nǐ gù zuò jiān qiáng lí kāi
Holding back tears, closing the door, you pretended to be strong and left
然后安慰自己缘分自有安排
rán hòu ān wèi zì jǐ yuán fēn zì yǒu ān pái
Then I comfort myself, destiny has its own arrangement
纵然心中充满了脆弱无奈
zòng rán xīn zhōng chōng mǎn le cuì ruò wú nài
Even though my heart is filled with weakness and helplessness
每个人都期待 下次遇到真爱
měi gè rén dōu qī dài xià cì yù dào zhēn ài
Everyone is looking forward to encountering true love next time
才放弃的比珍惜还快
cái fàng qì de bǐ zhēn xī hái kuài
Giving up comes faster than cherishing
每个人都期待 早点找到真爱
měi gè rén dōu qī dài zǎo diǎn zhǎo dào zhēn ài
Everyone hopes to find true love soon
只可惜我们都一直到
zhǐ kě xī wǒ men dōu yì zhí dào
It's a pity that we only come to understand it all
有一天彼此怀念时才明白
yǒu yī tiān bǐ cǐ huái niàn shí cái míng bái
One day when we reminisce about each other
我想我们不例外
wǒ xiǎng wǒ men bù lì wài
I think we are no exception
在茫茫人海中寻找著合身的爱
zài máng máng rén hǎi zhōng xún zhǎo zhù hé shēn de ài
Searching for a fitting love in the vast sea of people
好像童话里那拣贝壳的小孩
hǎo xiàng tóng huà lǐ nà jiǎn bèi ké de xiǎo hái
Like the child in fairy tales picking up seashells
到最后才了解已错过了真爱
dào zuì hòu cái liǎo jiě yǐ cuò guò le zhēn ài
Only to realize at the end that true love has been missed
每个人都期待 下次遇到真爱
měi gè rén dōu qī dài xià cì yù dào zhēn ài
Everyone is looking forward to encountering true love next time
才放弃的比珍惜还快
cái fàng qì de bǐ zhēn xī hái kuài
Giving up comes faster than cherishing
每个人都期待 早点找到真爱
měi gè rén dōu qī dài zǎo diǎn zhǎo dào zhēn ài
Everyone hopes to find true love soon
只可惜我们都一直到
zhǐ kě xī wǒ men dōu yì zhí dào
It's a pity that we only come to understand it all
有一天彼此怀念时才明白
yǒu yī tiān bǐ cǐ huái niàn shí cái míng bái
One day when we reminisce about each other
只可惜我们都一直到
zhǐ kě xī wǒ men dōu yì zhí dào
It's a pity that we only come to understand it all
有一天彼此怀念时才明白
yǒu yī tiān bǐ cǐ huái niàn shí cái míng bái
One day when we reminisce about each other
你我各自在生活里徘徊
nǐ wǒ gè zì zài shēng huó lǐ pái huái
You and I are each wandering in our own lives
只是夜深人静里会醒来
zhǐ shì yè shēn rén jìng lǐ huì xǐng lái
It's just that in the stillness of the night, we wake up
每当看著两人的合照时
měi dāng kàn zhe liǎng rén de hé zhào shí
Whenever I look at the photo of the two of us
心中还是有很多感慨
xīn zhōng hái shì yǒu hěn duō gǎn kǎi
There are still many feelings in my heart
每个人都期待 下次遇到真爱
měi gè rén dōu qī dài xià cì yù dào zhēn ài
Everyone is looking forward to encountering true love next time
才放弃的比珍惜还快
cái fàng qì de bǐ zhēn xī hái kuài
Giving up comes faster than cherishing
每个人都期待 早点找到真爱
měi gè rén dōu qī dài zǎo diǎn zhǎo dào zhēn ài
Everyone hopes to find true love soon
只可惜我们都一直到
zhǐ kě xī wǒ men dōu yì zhí dào
It's a pity that we only come to understand it all
有一天彼此怀念时才明白
yǒu yī tiān bǐ cǐ huái niàn shí cái míng bái
One day when we reminisce about each other
是不是我们下一次会遇到真爱?
shì bú shì wǒ men xià yī cì huì yù dào zhēn ài?
Will we meet true love next time?

Mandarin learning guide

Learn with True Love

This guide follows a song about looking for true love, looking back on a lost relationship, and wondering whether the next meeting will be different. The lyrics give repeated, teachable language for regret, reflection, and future hopes.

expressing regret and reflection; future hope with uncertainty; repeated lyric patterns and contrast

What to listen for

The lyrics move from a personal memory of leaving and being left behind to a broader reflection on how people look for “true love” while often realizing the value of it too late. Repeated lines build a cycle of expectation, loss, and self-questioning, ending with an open question about whether the next encounter will be true love. The language is especially useful for learning how Mandarin links time, regret, and comparison in a compact, song-like way.

  • Recognize how the lyrics use time words like 还、一直到、下次、早点 to shift between memory and expectation.
  • Understand how the song expresses regret and hesitation with phrases such as 该还不该、才、只可惜、会不会.
  • Use a few practical lyric expressions for describing relationships, memory, and emotional reflection in natural Mandarin.

How the song moves

Opening question

The song starts by framing a choice about love in the future, then immediately asks whether that decision should be made.

Memory of leaving

The next lines recall a night of silence, tears, and departure, followed by self-comfort and helplessness.

Repeated chorus reflection

The chorus repeats that people hope to meet true love, but often only understand it after time has passed and they are remembering each other.

Closing uncertainty

The ending narrows to two people wandering separately, waking in the night, and asking whether the next time will bring true love.

Translation choices

选择明天可能的爱

xuǎn zé míng tiān kě néng de ài

Natural English
Choosing the love that might come tomorrow
Why
This keeps the future-oriented sense of 选择 and the uncertainty in 可能的, while sounding natural in English.

忍住泪关上门 你故做坚强离开

rěn zhù lèi guān shàng mén nǐ gù zuò jiān qiáng lí kāi

Natural English
Holding back tears, closing the door, you pretended to be strong and left
Why
The line lists actions in sequence, so the translation preserves that order and the contrast between pretending to be strong and actually holding back tears.

是不是我们下一次会遇到真爱?

shì bú shì wǒ men xià yī cì huì yù dào zhēn ài?

Natural English
Will we meet true love next time?
Why
The final line is a direct question about the future, and this rendering keeps the uncertainty and the plain, spoken tone.

Useful Mandarin from the song

选择xuǎn zéto choose

Used here as a decision verb before an object phrase, it can describe making a choice in many everyday contexts.

我选择这个答案。wǒ xuǎn zé zhè ge dá àn。I choose this answer.
安慰自己ān wèi zì jǐto comfort oneself

This reflexive phrase shows someone trying to calm their own feelings after a painful event.

她会安慰自己别太难过。tā huì ān wèi zì jǐ bié tài nán guò。She will comfort herself and not be too upset.
寻找著xún zhǎo zhùsearching for

This depicts an ongoing search, fitting the line’s sense of moving through a crowd while looking for a suitable love.

他们正在寻找著出口。tā men zhèng zài xún zhǎo zhù chū kǒu。They are searching for an exit.
徘徊pái huáito wander; to linger undecided

In this lyric it suggests being stuck in one’s own life path, and it can also describe hesitation or aimless movement in other situations.

他在门口徘徊了很久。tā zài mén kǒu pái huái le hěn jiǔ。He lingered at the door for a long time.

Listen closely

  • Listen for the repeated chorus lines: 每个人都期待 and 只可惜我们都一直到. The repetition is a key part of the song’s reflection.
  • Notice the contrast between future words like 下次、早点、下一次 and memory words like 那夜、今天、有一天.
  • Pay attention to the emotional shift from individual scenes of leaving and waking up to the broader question in the final line.

Check your understanding

  1. Which lyric phrase shows self-comfort after a painful moment?

    Show answer

    安慰自己

  2. What does the final question ask about the future?

    Show answer

    It asks whether we will meet true love next time.

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