修炼爱情 (Practice Love)

Xiu Lian Ai Qing

凭什么要失望
píng shén me yào shī wàng
Why should I be disappointed?
藏眼泪到心脏
cáng yǎn lèi dào xīn zàng
Hiding tears in my heart.
往事不会说谎别跟它为难
wǎng shì bú huì shuō huǎng bié gēn tā wéi nán
The past won't lie; don't make it difficult.
我们两人之间不需要这样
wǒ men liǎng rén zhī jiān bù xū yào zhè yàng
We don't need this between us.
我想
wǒ xiǎng
I want to.
修炼爱情的心酸
xiū liàn ài qíng de xīn suān
The bittersweetness of cultivating love.
学会放好以前的渴望
xué huì fàng hǎo yǐ qián de kě wàng
Learning to let go of past desires.
我们那些信仰
wǒ men nà xiē xìn yǎng
Our beliefs.
要忘记多难
yào wàng jì duō nán
How hard it is to forget.
远距离的欣赏
yuǎn jù lí de xīn shǎng
Admiring from afar.
近距离的迷惘
jìn jù lí de mí wǎng
Confusion up close.
谁说太阳会找到月亮
shuí shuō tài yáng huì zhǎo dào yuè liàng
Who said the sun could find the moon?
别人有的爱
bié rén yǒu de ài
Love that others have.
我们不可能模仿
wǒ men bù kě néng mó fǎng
We can’t possibly imitate.
修炼爱情的悲欢
xiū liàn ài qíng de bēi huān
The joys and sorrows of cultivating love.
我们这些努力不简单
wǒ men zhè xiē nǔ lì bù jiǎn dān
Our effort isn't simple.
快乐炼成泪水
kuài lè liàn chéng lèi shuǐ
Happiness turns into tears.
是一种勇敢
shì yī zhǒng yǒng gǎn
That's a kind of bravery.
几年前的幻想
jǐ nián qián de huàn xiǎng
The fantasies from years ago.
几年后的原谅
jǐ nián hòu de yuán liàng
The forgiveness years later.
为一张脸去养一身伤
wèi yī zhāng liǎn qù yǎng yī shēn shāng
To cherish a face while bearing scars.
别讲想念我
bié jiǎng xiǎng niàn wǒ
Don't talk about missing me.
我会受不了这样
wǒ huì shòu bù liǎo zhè yàng
I can't handle this.
记忆它真嚣张
jì yì tā zhēn xiāo zhāng
Memory is truly arrogant.
路灯把痛点亮
lù dēng bǎ tòng diǎn liàng
Street lights illuminate the pain.
情人一起看过多少次月亮
qíng rén yì qǐ kàn guò duō shǎo cì yuè liàng
How many times have lovers watched the moon together?
它在天空看过多少次遗忘
tā zài tiān kōng kàn guò duō shǎo cì yí wàng
How many times has it seen forgetfulness in the sky?
多少心慌
duō shǎo xīn huāng
So much anxiety.
修炼爱情的心酸
xiū liàn ài qíng de xīn suān
The bittersweetness of cultivating love.
学会放好以前的渴望
xué huì fàng hǎo yǐ qián de kě wàng
Learning to let go of past desires.
我们那些信仰
wǒ men nà xiē xìn yǎng
Our beliefs.
要忘记多难
yào wàng jì duō nán
How hard it is to forget.
远距离的欣赏
yuǎn jù lí de xīn shǎng
Admiring from afar.
近距离的迷惘
jìn jù lí de mí wǎng
Confusion up close.
谁说太阳会找到月亮
shuí shuō tài yáng huì zhǎo dào yuè liàng
Who said the sun could find the moon?
别人有的爱
bié rén yǒu de ài
Love that others have.
我们不可能模仿
wǒ men bù kě néng mó fǎng
We can’t possibly imitate.
修炼爱情的悲欢
xiū liàn ài qíng de bēi huān
The joys and sorrows of cultivating love.
我们这些努力不简单
wǒ men zhè xiē nǔ lì bù jiǎn dān
Our effort isn't simple.
快乐炼成泪水
kuài lè liàn chéng lèi shuǐ
Happiness turns into tears.
是一种勇敢
shì yī zhǒng yǒng gǎn
That's a kind of bravery.
几年前的幻想
jǐ nián qián de huàn xiǎng
The fantasies from years ago.
几年后的原谅
jǐ nián hòu de yuán liàng
The forgiveness years later.
为一张脸去养一身伤
wèi yī zhāng liǎn qù yǎng yī shēn shāng
To cherish a face while bearing scars.
别讲想念我
bié jiǎng xiǎng niàn wǒ
Don't talk about missing me.
我会受不了这样
wǒ huì shòu bù liǎo zhè yàng
I can't handle this.
笑着说爱让人疯狂
xiào zhe shuō ài ràng rén fēng kuáng
Saying love makes people crazy.
哭着说爱让人紧张
kū zhe shuō ài ràng rén jǐn zhāng
Crying about love makes people tense.
忘不了那个人就投降
wàng bù liǎo nà ge rén jiù tóu xiáng
Can't forget that person, just surrender.
修炼爱情的悲欢
xiū liàn ài qíng de bēi huān
The joys and sorrows of cultivating love.
我们这些努力不简单
wǒ men zhè xiē nǔ lì bù jiǎn dān
Our effort isn't simple.
快乐炼成泪水
kuài lè liàn chéng lèi shuǐ
Happiness turns into tears.
是一种勇敢
shì yī zhǒng yǒng gǎn
That's a kind of bravery.
几年前的幻想
jǐ nián qián de huàn xiǎng
The fantasies from years ago.
几年后的原谅
jǐ nián hòu de yuán liàng
The forgiveness years later.
为一张脸去养一身伤
wèi yī zhāng liǎn qù yǎng yī shēn shāng
To cherish a face while bearing scars.
别讲想念我
bié jiǎng xiǎng niàn wǒ
Don't talk about missing me.
我会受不了这样
wǒ huì shòu bù liǎo zhè yàng
I can't handle this.
几年前的幻想
jǐ nián qián de huàn xiǎng
The fantasies from years ago.
几年后的原谅
jǐ nián hòu de yuán liàng
The forgiveness years later.
为一张脸去养一身伤
wèi yī zhāng liǎn qù yǎng yī shēn shāng
To cherish a face while bearing scars.
别讲想念我
bié jiǎng xiǎng niàn wǒ
Don't talk about missing me.
我会受不了这样
wǒ huì shòu bù liǎo zhè yàng
I can't handle this.

Mandarin learning guide

Learn with 修炼爱情

This guide uses the lyric’s repeated contrasts—distance and closeness, happiness and tears, memory and forgiveness—to build practical Mandarin reading skills. You’ll learn how the song turns emotional ideas into compact, memorable phrases.

contrast words in the lyric; abstract noun phrases; poetic sentence patterns

What to listen for

The lyric moves through disappointment, memory, and repeated effort, then circles back to the idea of 修炼爱情 as a difficult process with both bitter and brave sides. It uses short, forceful lines and paired opposites such as 远距离/近距离 and 幻想/原谅 to show how the speaker thinks about love, forgetting, and endurance.

  • Understand how the lyric uses contrast to express emotional change.
  • Recognize useful noun phrases built with 的 and repeated adjective-noun patterns.
  • Interpret several lines that rely on concise, poetic word order rather than full explanatory sentences.

How the song moves

Opening rejection

The lyric begins with disappointment and an urge to hold back tears, then says the past should not be made difficult.

Core reflection

It shifts to the central idea of 修炼爱情, describing effort, forgetting, distance, and the limits of imitation.

Refrain and conclusion

The repeated refrain broadens the idea into joy, sorrow, fantasy, forgiveness, and carrying伤 through time.

Translation choices

往事不会说谎别跟它为难

wǎng shì bú huì shuō huǎng bié gēn tā wéi nán

Natural English
The past won’t lie; don’t make it hard on it.
Why
This keeps the two parts of the line: the statement about the past not lying and the warning not to trouble it. The phrasing stays close to the lyric’s direct, admonishing tone.

远距离的欣赏

yuǎn jù lí de xīn shǎng

Natural English
Admiration from a distance.
Why
The reviewed meaning is concise, but this rendering preserves the noun-like feel of 远距离的欣赏. It works well as a compact phrase rather than a full sentence.

笑着说爱让人疯狂

xiào zhe shuō ài ràng rén fēng kuáng

Natural English
Smiling, they say love makes people crazy.
Why
This follows the lyric’s quoted, conversational feel and keeps the adverbial opening 笑着. It reflects a voiced remark rather than a neutral description.

Useful Mandarin from the song

藏cángto hide

藏 appears in everyday Mandarin for hiding or putting something out of sight. Here it is used with tears, creating a compact emotional image.

把钥匙藏起来。bǎ yào shi cáng qǐ lái。Hide the key away.
学会xué huìto learn how to

学会 often introduces a skill or change in behavior. In this lyric it links learning with letting go of earlier desire.

我学会慢一点说话。wǒ xué huì màn yì diǎn shuō huà。I learned to speak more slowly.
迷惘mí wǎngconfusion; bewilderment

迷惘 describes a mental state of not being clear or settled. The line pairs it with 近距离 to contrast emotional closeness and uncertainty.

他对未来感到迷惘。tā duì wèi lái gǎn dào mí wǎng。He feels confused about the future.
模仿mó fǎngto imitate

模仿 is a useful verb for copying a style, action, or pattern. The lyric negates it to say this love cannot simply be copied.

孩子会模仿大人的语气。hái zi huì mó fǎng dà rén de yǔ qì。Children imitate adults’ tone of voice.

Listen closely

  • Listen for the repeated refrain 修炼爱情的… and note how the second and third words change the emotional focus.
  • Hear the contrast pairs 远距离 / 近距离 and 幻想 / 原谅; they carry the lyric’s main movement.
  • Pay attention to the short line 我想, which creates a pause before the longer reflection begins.

Check your understanding

  1. Which two lines form a contrast between distance and closeness?

    Show answer

    远距离的欣赏 / 近距离的迷惘.

  2. What does 修炼爱情 describe in this lyric?

    Show answer

    Love as a difficult process with effort, bitterness, joy, and bravery.

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